simple... if he matters to you enough to upset you now. If he matters enough to cause agitation. If he matters enough to tingle you in the right place. If you can ignore him and just set him aside despite him yearning to be yours... I suppose be man enough to admit that you don't love him...
don't keep him in queue.. You might be keeping him away from someone who can love him for all that he is...
Be considerate... neither of you would benefit if you know you're just keeping him as one of your fail-safe..
you might just be wasting time...
